Personalized & Inclusive Celebrations


Hi, I'm Judy.
The heart & soul behind Weddings by Phoebe.
I am a wife, mother, grandma, Harley rider, woman of faith, and certified Minister with a Masters in Biblical Studies.
My journey has not been typical, but that’s the beautiful thing. No one’s journey is.
You may be wondering, why Phoebe?
Growing up on a rural farm, with a hard working [and surly] father, he often referred to me as Phoebe. In all those years I never requested an explanation, and likewise, no explanation was given. Most definitely a sign of the time. My father, for reasons unknown, called me Phoebe all throughout my childhood.
Decades later as I strengthened my spirituality and relationship with God, I learned that in Romans 16:1-2 Phoebe was known as a servant and a helper. Phoebe helped support Paul’s Ministry as she delivered Paul’s letter from Corinth to Rome.
It was then I found comfort in my nickname, Phoebe. What I would do to sit down with my father and ask why he adopted that name for me so many years ago.
Whether you are a strong follower of faith or simply looking for an officiant to unify your celebration in a unique and personalized way, I am here to help to guide you on that journey.
Hugs, Judy
Everlasting Memories
Wedding Ceremonies
The decision to commit yourself to another is arguably one of the biggest decisions we make in our lifetime. My style is warm and friendly so you may experience a ceremony that is personalized to you and your loved one.
I offer a well- organized and genuine experience for your intimate wedding by facilitating your wedding ceremony from start to finish; including song, reading & scripture choices. I look forward to working with you to create ever-lasting memories.
Celebrations
of Life
Funerals, for decades, have been the most common practiced ceremony to commemorate the loss of a loved one. As we continue to embrace varying cultures, traditions and values of our loved ones, Celebrations of Life offer a unique and memorable experience. Planning a Celebration of Life offers the ability to create an event that reflects the life your loved one lived.
Legacy
Writing
Everyone’s journey is undoubtedly unique. Legacy writing entails capturing memories, values, stories, thoughts and wishes into words to be shared with family and friends for generations to come. Nearing the end of life is challenging for all involved. As a trained Legacy Writer I meet with your loved one and most importantly listen. I listen and document the ‘intangible’ memories they wish to share and bundle them up in a memorable gift for family and friends.